According to psychological views, a person who is excessively jealous, is suffering from feelings of inferiority. Someone who is excessive jealousy, feels like he/she is not worthy of his/her partner. Or else, something must have happened in the childhood, causing a person to suffer from excessive jealousy now.
Psychologists, however, are not aware of the subconscious mind extending around a person and consisting of millions of programs steering human conduct. Therefore, they are compelled to look for an explanation for conduct in what seems logical in human reasoning.
Maybe somebody who is excessively jealous, happens to have feelings of inferiority and a feeling of low self-esteem as well. Or maybe that person happens to have had a bad childhood.
But a lot of people have feelings of inferiority and have had a bad childhood, but still do not show any signs of excessive jealousy.
According to the views of LTA Personal Development, excessive jealous conduct results from programs or ‘patterns’ surrounding the person. These patterns exist as from the day of being born.
Patterns such as: ‘you feel threatened as soon as another man looks at her, she will love him more, + a feeling of intense jealousy, + you must protect what is yours, so you must follow her everywhere, watch her, wanting to lock her up’.
Another pattern: ‘an enormous fear of losing him, therefore wanting to restrict his freedom of movement’. Another pattern: ‘if she talks to another man, she is unfaithful’. Etc.
People follow the conduct, the reasoning and the emotions that have been fixed in the patterns. If a pattern dictates suspicion and jealousy, the person concerned will be suspicious and jealous. By using the LTA method, we break down these patterns, so that the excessive jealousy disappears. Always. The thing is that it may occur more rapidly with one person than with another.
