Pangs of love may involve some extremely painful feelings. With some people these feelings may be softened after a while. With a whole lot of people, however, the pangs of love will continue to be strong for months or even years. Far too many people keep clinging on to a partner that has gone.
With LTA Personal Development it is possible to relieve a person from pangs of love. It is possible to eliminate the painful feelings of grief, desperation, inability to let go etc. On the other hand, sometimes it is also possible to restore the relationship to the way it was before.
A relationship can die because either or both partners has/have trouble with some inconvenient characteristics in the other partner’s conduct. When these inconvenient features are corrected, the relationship can improve again.
Quite often, unconscious programmings or ‘patterns’ exist between two people, causing a relationship to develop in a certain way. When these patterns are broken down, a relationship may change for the better.
Sometimes too many unpleasant things have happened in the relationship, so that there is no room for positive feelings any more. When the negative memories are eliminated, the relationship can grow back into the relationship of understanding that it was in the beginning.
If sexual problems are at the basis of the break-up or play an important role in the deterioration of the relationship, in many cases a lot can be achieved in this respect by destroying unconscious patterns causing sexual difficulties.
If, in spite of everything, nothing can be done to fix the relationship, the person should be able to let go of the ex-partner. He or she has to be relieved from his or her pangs of love, so as to be able to prepare for a new relationship. By using the LTA therapy, we can achieve that.
However, if a break-up occurs too often in a person’s life, or if there is a clear negative structure in the way a relationship evolves over and over again, chances are that the next relationship will end badly again. Once again involving the pangs of love and all consequences related thereto.
If relationships evolve in the same way over and over again, this is the result of unconscious programmings. Very often it has been fixed in the patterns that a relationship starts off well and than ends badly again. As long as these patterns remain present, a person cannot build up a good relationship.
By means of the LTA therapy these patterns are destroyed, so that a next relationship can become an ever-lasting love relationship.
